I don't think I've ever been so upset.
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Two of my friends sent me a voicemail out of nowhere saying they don't want to be my friends anymore because I'm 'mean.'
'mean' being: I got mad when one of them tried to steal from me. Oh, I'm so mean, arent I?
I am so mad at them right now. and they said in the voicemail: 'We don't want to be your friends anymore because you're ....not the Nicest person.'
Not the nicest person, sure.
but I got mad at them when they tried to steal.
And as if their voicemail was 'nice.' sure, they said it in a nice tone of voice, but that makes no difference to me.
I have never been so angry and upset in my life.
And I seriously just want to talk to someone.
'mean' being: I got mad when one of them tried to steal from me. Oh, I'm so mean, arent I?
I am so mad at them right now. and they said in the voicemail: 'We don't want to be your friends anymore because you're ....not the Nicest person.'
Not the nicest person, sure.
but I got mad at them when they tried to steal.
And as if their voicemail was 'nice.' sure, they said it in a nice tone of voice, but that makes no difference to me.
I have never been so angry and upset in my life.
And I seriously just want to talk to someone.
RiPtide (#106)
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04-13-2011 at 11:36 PM
I'm sorry to hear that, that was so hurtful :( It sounds like if they were stealing from you then it was time to break off the friendship anyways. You must be really frustrated and mad, but it'll get better and... yeah. I know it's tough but don't dwell on that message--they obviously don't value the true you.<br /> And if you want to talk, my inbox is always open :)
DappledSunlight (#12878)
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04-13-2011 at 2:59 PM
If they were good friends in the first place they wouldn't try to steal from you. You did the right thing by saying no,if it was me i'd just forget about it. :)
Birdie (#12741)
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04-10-2011 at 5:48 AM
You call them friends? I would think that when someone is mad at you because you got a them for STEALING from you, they aren't your friends. I don't think you should worry about it, and focus on trying to find some real friends who won't be like that. That's the best advice I can give.
DASH! (#8969)
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04-10-2011 at 12:45 AM
I think that if they can't handle being friends with someone who has EMOTIONS then they shouldn't be your friends to begin with. Besides no one likes a person who steals.
the-psychic-sponge (#12537)
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04-9-2011 at 3:59 PM
That stinks. I know my friends, well, they don't really steal but take things from my pencil case to mess with me. It's all just a game but sometimes it becomes a little to much. i agree with everyone else. They don't sound like friends if they put all the blame on you when you clearly had the right to do that.
Steaks (#5484)
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04-6-2011 at 6:41 PM
Those don't sound like friends to me. You're better off dropping them. Drop all negativity out of your life and you'll feel better. Anybody who steals is scum, in my opinion.
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Shadow Rayne Kennels (#41)
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04-6-2011 at 4:29 PM
I'm sorry to hear that Coyote. That wasn't nice of them to say such a thing. I think maybe it might be best that they aren't your friends anymore. You can find better friends who will be fine with who you are or how you act. It shouldn't matter to them.